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Hi, amor is here ♡ 

I wrote this in case the future me was afraid to take risk, start new things, or too lazy to get up from bed :) 

kay gurl, listen. when u wanna be good at something, then u gonna try to watch a bunch of videos, read a few books, u search this and that theories, but it's all doesn’t matter if u didn’t take the first step. i didn't say that effort is worthless. what i'm trying to say is you have to practice what you want to good at. 

For example you were thinking about how to be good at public speaking. But what you did is always stay quiet and keep the words in your head only. Semedi lo? Buat apa banyak nonton "How to thingy" atau baca buku ini itu, kalo gak berani mulai? You can't only learn something by theory. You must act.

Same analogy like u are going to watch a bunch of gym videos, nonton banyak tutorial video gym, tapi nonton doang. Ya gabakal six pack lah pandu. 

You wont get anything if you spent your time just for planning and didn’t actually do the thing. Read that again. 

First u must get rid of ur nervous away. No matter how bad it is, better fail while learning, than wait to be perfect to start. Lebih baik gagal saat belajar, daripada menunggu sempurna untuk memulai. 

gurl u can find out what are you struggling with and what’s your actual problem is, when u get your failure. Ya memang kenapa kalo gagal? jadi tau salahnya dimana kan? Untuk mengurangi rasa takut salah, i outsmarted it with comparing myself with my old self. 

Not with anyone who already better than me, because our process is obviously different. Comparing ourselves to others can caused an insecure also.  Udah jelas, confidence CANNOT get along with insecurities. Langit dan bumi. 

Okay, then, once you know what the problems are, baru deh u guys can find books or videos or whatever it is, to fix those problems. Get it?