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Recently, I'm on the WANT-TO-SHARE-ANYTHING-I-HAVE phase. So i just gave my old clothes to one of my distant relative, and the feeling after gave it away is glorious. It makes me want to give more. this act is based on what i read which is The Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo. what we already had actually more than we need. we have bunch of things we dont really use. 

The essentials of tidying up is reduces our things and keep only what makes us happy. the clothes that we really like to wear and make us feel confident, the book we really like and needed, there is no “nanti dibaca, nanti dipake” itu semua adalah WACANA BELAKA.

karena pada akhirnya semua kata "nanti" itu artinya "tidak akan pernah." so, bersyukur dan merasa cukup atas apa yang sudah kamu miliki sekarang. maksimalkan itu, pakai dan manfaatkan sebaik mungkin. karena barang-barang kita sejatinya ingin berjasa bagi kita dan ingin membantu kita. itulah tujuan mereka diciptakan. 

Kalau mereka terusss saja disimpan namun kemudian terlupakan (kamu mungkin ga menyangka punya baju ini itu karena mereka letaknya tersembunyi di tumpukan paling belakang lemari), pada akhirnya mereka akan sedih dan mati. 

Jadi relakan saja jika tidak digunakan. berikan pada yang membutuhkan atau buang juga tidak apa apa. karena mereka telah menunaikan tugasnya. 

Bahkan jika ada baju yang kamu gasuka, gapapa. mereka pun sudah menunaikan tugas dengan membuatmu senang saat membelinya atau menerimanya. sudah, sampai situlah tugas mereka. untuk seterusnya, jika kamu mau menyingkirkannya, boleh saja. itu berarti tugas mereka di hidupmu sudah selesai. pensiun. berikan atau buang. kelilingi dirimu hanya dengan barang2 yang kamu sukai. 

And a few days ago, I also thrown away my old books, documents, and things that I collect since I was in elementary school. I know those things have good memory in it, but that's it. What else? It has nothing to use anymore. 

For example is my pen case collection. I have one pen that looove from my bottom heart, I used to refill the ink and still use that one pen case. Despite hundred other pens that I have.

That one pen is really know how my anxiety was everytime I want to start study, how many times I left behind when I write something. It has one part I love to stare at. Because it gives me calm. But now, I let them all away. I just say thank you for their services and it's the end of their duty toward me.

Just want you to know, if you let the old or broken things away, that decision will give your home bright energy to welcome new things to come your way. 

If you want new opportunities, new memories, new beautiful things to come (actually not works only for the thing but also human) first, you need to release the old one. Let go the past. So the new kinds can show up. Be wise. Don't hoard except for investment.

Remember, the past is behind you not beside or even in front of you.